When You’re Bored In Your Marriage

10 Ways to Break Out of the Rut of Routine

Bored Couple

Are you bored in your marriage? We hear this all too often in our work with couples. It actually can be a warning sign of vulnerability to other stimuli or people filling the void and threatening the sanctity of a marriage.

Simply breaking your routine and adding fresh experiences to your marriage can stimulate romance. You will experience each other in new ways. The two of you will add shared memories to your history that no one else could have with you. What follows are 10 steps to break out of boredom.

Unleash Your Spouse’s Spiritual Gifts

Discovering Your Spiritual Gifts as a Couple

volunteer couple

Do you know what your spouse’s spiritual gifts are? When was the last time you two talked about your spiritual gifts? If you’re like most couples, you may not know what your gifts are, let alone your spouse’s spiritual gifts..

Learning about spiritual gifts can set you and your spouse on an exciting and new spiritual trajectory!

  • You have the opportunity to learn new things about your spouse.
  • You are empowered to help them grow in their relationship with Jesus.
  • You can help them find a new expression of who they are in Christ.

As a result, the partnership the two of you share will deepen your intimacy with each other and with Christ.

When Your Spouse is Discouraged

Bringing hope when life is hard

Discouraged spouse

We all get discouraged. The triggers for discouragement can come in all sizes and shapes. Perhaps a mean comment was made at work. It could be a season of hardship in a relationship. Financial challenges can weigh us down. Not making the spiritual progress we desire can be frustrating.

Sooner or later in marriage, your spouse will face discouragement. How can you step in and be a support?

Sowing and Reaping in Marriage

What are you planting in your relationship?

Sowing Seed

Brad was raised in a family that had a farming legacy. His grandfather had a company that raised hybrid seed for corn and other crops. At one point, his grandparents raised 300 acres of Orville Redenbacher popcorn!

His grandfather knew that when he planted oats, he would get oats. When he planted corn seed, he would reap a harvest of corn (or popcorn!). It was a simple law of sowing and reaping.

Facing Grief Together

Brad and his Dad

Brad and his Dad

On April 24, 2016, Brad’s dad passed away. Immediately, our family was brought together in a time of grief and mourning.

Facing the loss of a loved one will be part of your life together as a couple. It may be grief from a parent dying, a miscarriage, or loss through a traumatic event. But nearly every couple will go through a season of loss and grieving.